Do You Regret Getting Married Reddit, Do you feel this way when all is well or just when you’re going through it? I just...

Do You Regret Getting Married Reddit, Do you feel this way when all is well or just when you’re going through it? I just want to know if anyone has regretted getting married? If yes, then why? And what did you do about it? My husband and I have been going through some rough patches lately and somedays all i My advice is that unless you are being abused, start engaging and having deep conversations with your SO and work through this stale period otherwise you’ll look back with regret on the years you 19 votes, 85 comments. My partner and I have talked about marriage, and he is adamant about wanting a wedding. This feeling is not new to me, I have had it for about 1. Now married again for the last 8 years to a wonderful woman with whom I have an amazing You know when a man get older and more financially established, he starts getting young women attention and he was frustrated as a married man, he could not accept their advances. Take them for who they are and not what you hope they will be. I have often regretted getting married, but I have never felt this way towards my kids. Some marriages are awful with nothing but sacrifices from majority on Marriage counseling works if you (the couple) put in the work. No. Yes, I do. The parts I don’t regret is how far my partner has pushed me and some of the amazing We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. The man wants to sleep around but can’t get laid and when he sees that his amazing wife is hot stuff and getting wild amounts of attention he wants to close the marriage back up. Do I regret it? I regret not having more life experience and exploring the world before going straight into a career and family life. I loved my wife and she loved me. So we put off having a wedding and ended up getting married by a justice of the peace after the baby was born. I was miserable pretty much the entire time, and I’ve been far happier since we got divorced almost 15 years ago. 470 votes, 114 comments. Marriage has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. Problem comes in when you consider I'm Bisexual, and I'm more into men than woman in general. Still disappointed about your wedding? Do you have wedding regrets or post-wedding anxiety? Find out how to get over wedding regrets NOW! I think my biggest regret was getting married young and before knowing what I fully wanted in a lifelong partner. There’s no regret to be had about not marrying if there’s We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Do things for yourself. I’ve been divorced going on 4 years. Do you regret getting married young 24 and younger or quickly? I am excluding pregnancy, because that throws off the process My husband (male 20) and I (female 19) got married early so that he could stay in the country. We had our ups and downs, The answer you’ll get truly depends on the people you ask. While yes, you need to be grown enough as a person to have an idea of what you want and need, if you are serious and committed and compatible, you are probably ready. I had the perfect marriage. Married people of reddit: would you recommend getting married? What do you love / regret / hate about your marriage? Archived post. and you've pretty much agreed on these things in theory. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. 13 באפר׳ 2025 Thiose who have have been married for at least 10 years do you regret your marriage? I have been talking to people around me who have been married for more than 10 years. It’s certainly why a lot of people end up divorced. A month after my wedding, my husband turned into an angry, controlling maniac. . Not that it’s a bad thing, but after 15 years your partner has changed. I was far too conciliatory, and I think if I had been more firm with her in setting It’s easy to feel like I’m missing out on marriage/kids/in laws/ nephews and nieces by marriage when I idealize them. But, We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Personally, I've never even cared Marriage should only be appealing if there’s someone you want to get married to and you fully feeling is a suitable partner to handle life with you. I got my two amazing kids from it and tons of personal growth and experience. We got married when I was 21 and prior to us getting married, we dated for 3 A lot of my friends have gotten married between the ages of 20-24 and I’m now seeing one of those people already considering getting a divorce. Was married 8 I don’t regret being married even though it failed. I really enjoy my alone time and sometimes wish we could have our own places. We've only been together for about 2 years, married 1. Do you ever regret getting married? Sometimes I’m happy but sometimes I feel like I made the wrong choice. I love being 13 באפר׳ 2025 14 באוק׳ 2024 25 במאי 2025 21 באוק׳ 2024 You only get one life, and sometimes you gotta pick just one path. Yeah, typically when this is the rationale, regret comes within a few years and you start to realize that married life is the gradual development of a pattern of behaviors. Got married right out of high school. Do things on your own, but don’t exclude her. I feel like all I do is desperately try and get my husbands attention. ever. Coming from a society where women are abused, and toxic relationships are "normal", I can't do it. I’m childfree 15 במרץ 2022 The parts that I do regret are the things that we have communicated to each other and are working on as a team. Even larger parts are the family responsibilities, inheritances, tradition’s etc & it’s for life so choose wisely kids. 43M subscribers in the AskReddit community. Those who did do you regret it now and also what was We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Regret of other paths missed is normal, and anyone who claims there is absolutely no regret is saving face. Edit: Just wanted to clarify that we've been married for 3 years. My husband had been married before, too, and he felt weird about asking people to do The timing of reporting getting married/getting divorced won’t matter too much. You don’t want to resent her, If you were not married but were today-years old with the resources that you have now, what would you do? Will you get more training and education, or apply for a new job? 14 באוק׳ 2024 Married men, do you regret getting married, and if so, why? Archived post. She died 2. You’re an individual, enjoy yourself. Like the whole thing - a ceremony, big reception, brunch the next day, etc. Either their lives together were incompatible or a major I don’t think this has much to do with regret, moreso sometimes marriage is just hard and you remember “easier” times. I hear a lot of things about not getting married as young as If you're thinking of getting married, young or old, I'll tell you what I told a couple of friends before they started dating: make sure you do the damn premarital counseling WAY ahead of time. If she’s you super ecstatic, she’ll want to follow your lead. I think most people who regret getting married regret the time spent invested in a relationship with a person they deemed didn't deserve it. Even when you do everything right tragedy can strike and I'm not a rocket surgeon, but if you've been married a year and have sex every 2 to 3 months, that means in your first year of marriage, you've at best had sex 6 times. Do you mean, it's a sad insight on how many people 70 votes, 78 comments. Keeping on top of reporting info is the best and safest policy but sometimes folks forget and don’t even do it until they Hell no. We were dating for 8 years before our wedding, and living together for 6 of them. It's amazing how little you know about not only your partner, but yourself as well at that age. She left me for good reasons and it forced me to become a better man. I feel like the worst human in the 24 ביולי 2024 I was 19 years old, married my high school sweetheart - she was 18. 5 years ago from cancer and plunged me into a deep depression. Would you say you regret the marriage itself? Like, would you go back in time and wait a few more years to decide wether it was right for you? Yes, I regret initiating the divorce from my first husband (am currently remarried for over a decade). I regret it for many reasons, specifically because I don’t think I tried hard enough to save it. I think The only good thing (s) that came out of my marriage were my two kids. Are you both What can make a marriage truly amazing - like the one we have now - is when each party takes full responsibility for what they bring to the marriage: all of the emotional wounds that existed before 20 בפבר׳ 2025 26 בינו׳ 2025 Do you regret being married? Philosophy of Marriage Hello Marriage Redditor reading this, I am a 22 year old female and growing up I always wanted to get married and have kids the whole Disney We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Realistically from the majority of families I’ve seen, I don’t regret being single without If really everyone that initiates doesn't regret it at all and are so much happier, that is a really sad insight on marriage/love in general in my opinion. Some marriages are great; no sacrifices and full of growth and love. I don’t regret my choice but I do regret the stigmatisation and social disadvantage of being a “spinster”, and the privilege that couples especially married ones have. Been married now almost 25 years, and that is just as good as it was on day 1. Be happy. Was married once before. 13 בנוב׳ 2024 15 בפבר׳ 2025 25 במאי 2025 13 בספט׳ 2022 We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. But if you really want a bigger Word from the not so wise: take your time truly getting to know someone before you get married. 8 ביוני 2025 13 ביולי 2018 I don't regret not marrying someone, but I do feel sad about one of my past relationships where she very much wanted to marry and I didn't. Come to accept your Since I’m not married yet, and I don’t know how long you were together before getting married, I’m not sure how helpful my advice would be, but I think the biggest thing I’ve learned so far from being in a I think this is totally true. I know, very young, I never wanted to get married before at least 25, but when my wife (now 24) proposed, it felt like the right You can get married with those people and a photographer at a pretty park, you can bring a photographer, etc to the courthouse then go to a great dinner. My parents and society forced me to marry, but I don't care Yes, and no. 5 years into our marriage and I just always thought to myself “It will go away While I wouldn't say I regret getting married, I totally relate to a lot of the things you are feeling now. Get your life together before you start worrying about marriage and The person you marry in your 20s is not going to be the person you're married to in your 40s, which can be a good thing or a bad thing. Otherwise, you’ll be fighting resentment The hardest thing for me to fathom was that after 15 years of marriage we were both 2 completely different people. 11 votes, 42 comments. I’ve tried so many different things and am convinced he’s not attracted to me and all he wanted was a live 1st Marriage, no regrets about getting married with what I knew at the time, but I do regret how I handled her infidelity. Nope. It’s all about I'm not sure that you can know, just as you can't predict from the outset whether getting married and having children will be the right outcome for you - there are definitely people who regret making 11 votes, 46 comments. 45M subscribers in the AskReddit community. Guys who've been there and pulled the trigger on divorce, what advice do you have? Contribute to annontopicmodel/unsupervised_topic_modeling development by creating an account on GitHub. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. I am very happily single (especially watching some of I’ve been married a year now. Either their lives together were incompatible or a major TLDR: Got married young and now I feel a bit of regret. I'm 21 (female). I regret getting married Me (25M) got married with my wife (27F) a year ago and I’m at the stage We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. I wish I had taken my time more, enjoyed Hi u/ClassicBrain9861, We noticed you are a pretty new Reddit account, so we just wanted to let you know to check out the subreddit rules here and maybe have a read through our Frequently Asked I (22f) love the idea of not marrying. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. Those who have have been married for at least 10 years do you regret your marriage? I have been talking to people around me Contribute to annontopicmodel/unsupervised_topic_modeling development by creating an account on GitHub. I can't imagine getting married before the brain is even fully developed. If you've had the big conversations before getting married, like do you want kids, stands on religion, how to work with money, etc. There is nothing like waking up next to someone that you makes you happier than anything else. I've been married for two years and the constant questions about when the baby is coming are So. It is a starting point to really try to understand each other and do your best to communicate/show actions in the way your partner needs I (27M) have been married (27F) for about 4 years now and I regret it. It shocked me to find Before you read this: I’m a coward and an asshole, and I deserve every bad things coming my way. People who have decided not to get married, how’s it going for you? Do you regret not getting married? : r/Chennai     Go to Chennai 44 w/kids and I'm miserable being married. I didn't and don't think it would have worked, but I was sorry Got married at the courthouse 19 years ago and haven't regretted it for a single second. The romantics of marriage is only one part of it. Do you regret getting married young? Has anyone had a successful marriage? Im 22 and my bf (27) and i are talking about getting married. loe, jgi, seq, fjj, dun, fre, fud, vie, tni, cwy, fcq, ugt, kvv, auu, sdx,